The Gabby’s 2011- Wedding Inspiration

Phil and I at the 2013 Gabby Awards

Phil and I at the 2013 Gabby Awards

When I thought about Phil and I’s wedding I wanted to be as personalized as possible. If I picked something out for our wedding I wanted to have some sort of meaning behind it. It’s kinda cheesy, but I like cheesy. I want our wedding to kind of tell the story of our relationship beginning to present. Back in 2011 we attended and volunteered at the Greek America Foundation’s Gabby awards at Ellis Island in New York. The Gabbys are an award show for elite Greek people and are given to Greek people who have done cool stuff in the arts, teaching, sports, and other categories. Since I am a sucker for celebrities and hanging out with Greek people I naturally wanted to be there. My cousin Leah and one of my bridesmaids was the producer of the event and I naturally volunteered my celebrity services.  Like most things I want to go to or do I like to drag Phil along with me. He was willing to go with me and he never had been to New York and wanted to see the city.

2011 at the Gabby awards pre-party with our Metaxa Mojitos

2011 at the Gabby awards pre-party with our Metaxa Mojitos

During our 2011 trip to New York we got 2 of our wedding ideas. The first one being our signature drink, the Metaxa Mojito. I’ve been to plenty of parties in my lifetime where Metaxa, a Greek brandy, was served but I never had a mojito version. Let me tell that any time that Metaxa is served it should be in mojito form. They are yummy and dangerous. Metaxa was a sponsor for the pre-party and it was open bar so of course Phil and I had our share of mojitos that night. In honor of VIP New York fun we are having Metaxa mojitos for our wedding.

Our second idea that we stole from our experience during the 2011 Gabby’s was the red carpet. I love Hollywood. Ever since I remember I have been obsessed with movies, TV, and celebrities. When I was little I wanted to be a child actress and I begged my parents to get me an agent. They didn’t listen to me and I still tease my mother for not letting me be a child star. Then she points out I would probably be Amanda Bynes or Lindsay Lohan by now if she would had let me become a child actress. An important part of the Hollywood lifestyle is frequently walking on the red carpet. The first time I actually took in front of a “real” red carpet was at the 2011 Gabby awards. I felt like a real genuine celebrity.  I wanted to create that same feeling for our guests at our wedding. So we are having a red carpet at our wedding. We are going to have a backdrop and everything. So you better practice your skinny red carpet poses.

2011 Gabby's Red Carpet

2011 Gabby’s Red Carpet

The Tangier Tasting

The Sish Kabob!

The Sish Kabob!

As I previously stated in many posts, Phil and I love food. But, who doesn’t? I personally was looking forward to tasting our wedding menu. My dad created the whole menu himself and I was super excited to try it. The owners and the chef at Tangier are Lebanese and I’m half Lebanese so it was a perfect match. Basically every special occasion growing up we had shish kabob. Also it doesn’t help that my mom makes a mean shish kabob. Phil’s 1st birthday as a couple I made him my mom’s famous shish kabob and rice pilaf. So it made sense when my Dad created the menu I had absolutely no objections to his choice of an entree. Wedding food is one of the most important things when it comes to have a successful wedding event. So, naturally we needed to taste our customized wedding menu. I wasn’t hungry enough for all the food that we were going to taste. We started out with some of the appetizers that we chose, which included hummus and baba ghanouj  and pita bread. Normally I don’t like baba ghanouj aka eggplant chick pea dip, but Tangier’s is very tasty and I couldn’t stop eating it.

We are painfully stuffed at this point

We are painfully stuffed at this point

Another app that we tasted is our mashed potato bar. Phil and I fell in love with a mashed potato bar at the 2009 Barrister’s Ball. Barrister’s Ball is formal dance put on my law school and law schools everywhere. For those not familiar with the delicacy of a mashed potato bar, it is a variety of mashed potatoes served in a martini glass and you can put a bunch different toppings on the mashed potatoes such as gravy, butter, chives, cheese, bacon, or brown sugar.  Mashed potato bars are probably the best culinary invention since the sandwich…well I don’t know about that, but you get my point. My parents and Phil’s Dad had never had a mashed potato bar before so they were a little bit skeptical in trying it. After seeing all the topping laid out on a tray and pairing them with buttery mashed potato they were sold instantly. Other apps that we are having at the wedding but we didn’t try because the Lebanese chef was in Lebanon during our tasting, are vegetable platter and Spinach and Meat Pies.

After stuffing ourselves with a massive amounts of carbs we still had to find some room for 2 more courses. Up first was the shish kabobs. We tried a steak one and a chicken one. The chicken one was good but it was honey mustard flavored and it really didn’t go with the whole Arab food vibe we were going for. So we choose to have two steak kabobs. Then we tasted our late night meal. I copied this idea from my bridesmaid Kendra. When she got married she had make your sliders served at 10 pm. It was brilliant because it just the right type of food you need to have after a 4 or 5 hour open bar. When Phil was courting me in Columbus our favorite late night meal after a night of socializing was classic Columbus gyros.  You can’t find a gyro in Columbus that actually uses tzatziki instead of ranch dressing, but they are so good. Since our favorite are gyros and we are Greek we are having a late night gyro bar at our wedding. They taste really good and will do the perfect job of satisfying our guests 4th meal cravings.

Happy Parents approve of the meal

Happy Parents approve of the meal

The Epic Greek Band Search

The Aegean Duo from Vasili’s World Video on Vimeo.

I am a music snob. I admit it and my family and friends know it. Anytime I go to some event where there is music played I am super critical about what kind of music is being played and what order it is played in.  I am also super picky about Greek music.  I think I secretly want to be a DJ, my friend Cynthia knows about my DJ ambitions, in fact she sometimes calls me DJ A-List. So when it came to picking out the band for our wedding, I wanted the best. Due to the demographics of our wedding and our parents suggestions we decided that we wanted a Greek band for our wedding. I thought I had a pretty good grasp on the Greek Bands out of Northeast Ohio. I was right I did. Your main Greek bands in Northeast Ohio are Stigma, Karizma, The Fabulous Grecian Keys, and the Orion Express. But the big problem with Greek Bands is that there are made up of Greek people. As a Greek person myself I know that Greek people like to wait til the last minute to do things, aren’t the best at communicating effectively, and sometimes make promises that they can’t keep. I suffer from these stereotypical traits myself. My mom and I started contacting Greek bands late November, our first choice was booked and our second choice lead us on for approximately 3 months. See some Greek bands in Northeast Ohio are not made up a set group of people and their lineup changes depending on who can play that weekend. This particularly charismatic group was one of those bands and it took them 3 months to not tell us that they couldn’t find a bouzouki player. So after calling a few bands and not getting a response from them or them charging an arm and leg for their sub par performances, I started to get worried. I ended up calling some of the bands that were on the bottom of my list because I didn’t know who to call. One of the bands I called was very responsive and got excited that I called. I have seen them perform so I was excited. But this fabulous band had submitted a contract to a festival that same weekend so they were waiting to hear back from them. So they made us wait a month and half  waiting to hear about this festival contract. So naturally me being me I panicked. I had my parents and Phil’s parents ask everyone they knew what other Greek bands were out there. I was too invested in the idea of having a Greek band to search for a DJ. Luckily we got the best recommendation from Presbytera Goldie who gave Phil’s mom the name of the band that was at her daughter’s wedding, The Aegean Band from Rochester, NY. So naturally I Google’d them and found their website and watched and listening to all their music on their website and I was instantly fell in love with them. The video that was posted on their website I knew all the songs, they were playing songs from the last 5 years (which is rare for some NE Ohio Greek bands), and they sounded great. The moment they had me sold is when they played THREE of my favorite Greek artist’s songs in their promotional video. My Justin Timberlake of Greek music is Nikos Vertis, I love him. I have all of his CDs and my dream is to see him in concert one day. My favorite Greek song of all time is “Pes mou ksana” (The Aegean Band knows that song). When I contacted Steve from the Aegean Band he got back to me within hours of my email and was so nice and accommodating. They were actually up for the same festival contract as the other band that lead me on for a month but told me that I was his first priority since I was contacting him and was willing to reserve the date over the phone. So after discussing the band with Phil and the parentals we booked The Aegean Band and I couldn’t be happier. Opa!

This is Nikos Vertis’ newest single…isn’t he dreamy?

Picking a Reception Venue

I really don’t watch wedding shows like Say Yes to the Dress, Bridezillas, or that one with that creepy David Turtera guy. The only “wedding” show I like to watch is TLC’s “Four Weddings” If you haven’t seen the show, it is a competition show in which 4 brides attend each other weddings and judge them on the dress, the venue, the food, and overall experience. The bride with the most points wins a honeymoon. I enjoy this show because the brides on it our complete and total bitches.  Some brides will take away points for there being “too much” food or for the bride changing into a reception dress. It is great. Following the “Four Weddings” guidelines, when wedding planning I knew it was important to pick a good venue.

Our lives

Our lives

Phil is Greek and I’m Greek and Arab so we both have big families and  we probably knew that we really couldn’t keep our wedding a small affair. After “My Big Fat Greek Wedding” came out all non-Greeks basically expect you to have a large wedding. The only problem with planning a wedding with around 350-400 people is that there isn’t that many places you can have your wedding in Northeast Ohio. All the really cool venues only hold around 200 people. Just our family is 200 people…so that doesn’t work. After researching venues in the Canton/Akron area. We narrowed it down to 5 venues based solely on size. After weeding out the venues that were booked Labor day weekend 2013. We visited 3 venues. The 1st one had too many columns, the 2nd one was too small, and the 3rd one Tangier’s was just right. Tangier’s had the vibe that I wanted, plenty of space for the cocktail hour and reception, and it has a celebrity autograph hallway. If you know me I love celebrities and their autographs. But my mom and Phil gave me 1 condition to have our wedding venue at Tangier’s , I have to do this pose in their fountain:

The Condition- Source

I accepted this condition…now let’s see if it actually happens 😉